Thanks for this article. I don’t think I saw the one from the man who divorced his chronically ill wife; I’m sure he had his reasons but it’s hard to imagine what they might have been.

My husband and I take care of each other; I’m disabled but I’m also “senior” in my career, so I support him financially while he supports me by running the household in every other way. He is also somewhat disabled so it works out very well for us, and we’re very, very happy together, happier than we ever thought we could be.